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	<title>Comments on: Father Stabs Son For Wearing Hat to Church</title>
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		<title>By: Janet Greene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janet Greene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 20:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the second helping is afoot. There are signs everywhere. For example, I heard a co-worker&#039;s stomach growl. I will be watchful and wait for the rapturous pasta. I hope it comes with the promised xtra cheese (only for us believers though - all non-believers will have to just watch us eat)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the second helping is afoot. There are signs everywhere. For example, I heard a co-worker&#8217;s stomach growl. I will be watchful and wait for the rapturous pasta. I hope it comes with the promised xtra cheese (only for us believers though &#8211; all non-believers will have to just watch us eat)</p>
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		<title>By: Janet Greene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janet Greene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 20:12:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I heard about a man who stabbed his wife because she lacked the christian christmas spirit.  Wish I could find the article...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I heard about a man who stabbed his wife because she lacked the christian christmas spirit.  Wish I could find the article&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Why Reformed Bloggers Wear Me Out &#124; Fallen and Flawed</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19221</link>
		<dc:creator>Why Reformed Bloggers Wear Me Out &#124; Fallen and Flawed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 16:50:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] surprising coming from a person who&#8217;s built a following on flushing out the circus acts of Christianity&#8230;declaring them normative&#8230;and then condemning Christianity in its [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19220</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 00:01:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your responses, guys.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your responses, guys.</p>
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		<title>By: wintermute</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19219</link>
		<dc:creator>wintermute</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 16:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I recommend &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Moral-Animal-Science-Evolutionary-Psychology/dp/0679763996/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1236098164&amp;sr=8-1&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Moral Animal&lt;/i&gt; by Robert Wright. It&#039;s one of the first books on evo-psych, but possibly still one of the best for a layman to start with.

It does have the flaw of making the conclusions he draws seem more certain than they are, but it&#039;s worth reading to get an overview of how human morality compares to that of other animals, and how it &lt;i&gt;might have&lt;/i&gt; evolved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recommend <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Moral-Animal-Science-Evolutionary-Psychology/dp/0679763996/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1236098164&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">The Moral Animal by Robert Wright. It&#8217;s one of the first books on evo-psych, but possibly still one of the best for a layman to start with.</p>
<p>It does have the flaw of making the conclusions he draws seem more certain than they are, but it&#8217;s worth reading to get an overview of how human morality compares to that of other animals, and how it <i>might have</i> evolved.</a></p>
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		<title>By: Question-I-thority</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19218</link>
		<dc:creator>Question-I-thority</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 16:32:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I mean I agree we certainly share some traits, and behavoirs with non-human primates.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

There is currently a raging debate in primatology over whether or not non-human primates engage in altruism.

&lt;blockquote&gt;But, I can’t think evolution alone can account for all morality&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Skeptics often refer to this as the God of the Gaps argument.

The evidence for evolution is overwhelming.  So overwhelming that it is considered the Theory of Evolution like the Theory of Heliocentrism or the Theory of Gravity.  That isn&#039;t to say that there aren&#039;t mysteries to yet be resolved.  Related to moral issues for instance, along with the questions you raise one could ask how does murdering one&#039;s own child or suicide harmonize with evo?

It might be helpful to think about evolutionary brain development.  New species didn&#039;t get brand new 2.0 brains.  What we have in grey matter is the current complex resulting from 2 billion years of ad hoc development.  Human brain function is extremely complex, even convoluted.  As an example, we now know that when a person thinks about killing from a distance he/she uses a part of the brain that is focussed on rational decisions whereas when thinking about killing up close a different part of the brain is engaged, one that primes emotional reactions.

&lt;blockquote&gt;But, I can’t think evolution alone can account for all morality.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Wouldn&#039;t it be more reasonable to say something like, &#039;I personally don&#039;t understand how evolution might account for all morality and am looking forward to further developments in the field and perhaps my intuition will be proven correct&#039;?  Otherwise you are faced with the daunting task of overturning or just rejecting established science, no?

I would like to recommend a book on neuroscience for laymen, &#039;On Being Certain: Believing You Are Right Even When You&#039;re Wrong&#039; by Robert A. Burton, M.D.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I mean I agree we certainly share some traits, and behavoirs with non-human primates.</p></blockquote>
<p>There is currently a raging debate in primatology over whether or not non-human primates engage in altruism.</p>
<blockquote><p>But, I can’t think evolution alone can account for all morality</p></blockquote>
<p>Skeptics often refer to this as the God of the Gaps argument.</p>
<p>The evidence for evolution is overwhelming.  So overwhelming that it is considered the Theory of Evolution like the Theory of Heliocentrism or the Theory of Gravity.  That isn&#8217;t to say that there aren&#8217;t mysteries to yet be resolved.  Related to moral issues for instance, along with the questions you raise one could ask how does murdering one&#8217;s own child or suicide harmonize with evo?</p>
<p>It might be helpful to think about evolutionary brain development.  New species didn&#8217;t get brand new 2.0 brains.  What we have in grey matter is the current complex resulting from 2 billion years of ad hoc development.  Human brain function is extremely complex, even convoluted.  As an example, we now know that when a person thinks about killing from a distance he/she uses a part of the brain that is focussed on rational decisions whereas when thinking about killing up close a different part of the brain is engaged, one that primes emotional reactions.</p>
<blockquote><p>But, I can’t think evolution alone can account for all morality.</p></blockquote>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t it be more reasonable to say something like, &#8216;I personally don&#8217;t understand how evolution might account for all morality and am looking forward to further developments in the field and perhaps my intuition will be proven correct&#8217;?  Otherwise you are faced with the daunting task of overturning or just rejecting established science, no?</p>
<p>I would like to recommend a book on neuroscience for laymen, &#8216;On Being Certain: Believing You Are Right Even When You&#8217;re Wrong&#8217; by Robert A. Burton, M.D.</p>
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		<title>By: Metro</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19217</link>
		<dc:creator>Metro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 16:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Grace:
Evolution accounts for moral and altruistic behaviour in a couple of ways.

Moral behaviours tend to be pro-survival-of-the-species. For example: We tend to regard suicide as somewhere between amoral and immoral, but rarely moral.

Yet we all praise the soldiers who die so that a society can pursue its two-car-garge, two-point-four kids, and dog. We laud firepersons who die futilely trying to rescue old ladies who were probably corpses before the rescue effort began. Why? Because defending the tribe is a pro-survival behaviour.

Most real altruistic behaviour is behaviour that costs little or nothing to the individual. But there isn&#039;t a lot of it about. If we consider tossing change to a street kid: Am I doing it to improve that kid&#039;s odds of survival? No. I&#039;m most likely doing it to assuage my own guilt. Not altruistic behaviour then.

But where does the guilt, the awareness, come from? From being able to think beyond my self and my immediate needs, being able to put myself in that kid&#039;s shoes, and think &quot;There but for the grace of chance go I.&quot; And that has a strong evolutionary component--it&#039;s part of the same mechanism that engages in those soldiers and those fire fighters.

Churches practice a lot of charity. They also engage a lot of guilt. It&#039;s one of the things I feel churches do very well.

But we&#039;re increasingly realizing as societies that we can take generous and altruistic action without religious or theistic motivation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Grace:<br />
Evolution accounts for moral and altruistic behaviour in a couple of ways.</p>
<p>Moral behaviours tend to be pro-survival-of-the-species. For example: We tend to regard suicide as somewhere between amoral and immoral, but rarely moral.</p>
<p>Yet we all praise the soldiers who die so that a society can pursue its two-car-garge, two-point-four kids, and dog. We laud firepersons who die futilely trying to rescue old ladies who were probably corpses before the rescue effort began. Why? Because defending the tribe is a pro-survival behaviour.</p>
<p>Most real altruistic behaviour is behaviour that costs little or nothing to the individual. But there isn&#8217;t a lot of it about. If we consider tossing change to a street kid: Am I doing it to improve that kid&#8217;s odds of survival? No. I&#8217;m most likely doing it to assuage my own guilt. Not altruistic behaviour then.</p>
<p>But where does the guilt, the awareness, come from? From being able to think beyond my self and my immediate needs, being able to put myself in that kid&#8217;s shoes, and think &#8220;There but for the grace of chance go I.&#8221; And that has a strong evolutionary component&#8211;it&#8217;s part of the same mechanism that engages in those soldiers and those fire fighters.</p>
<p>Churches practice a lot of charity. They also engage a lot of guilt. It&#8217;s one of the things I feel churches do very well.</p>
<p>But we&#8217;re increasingly realizing as societies that we can take generous and altruistic action without religious or theistic motivation.</p>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19216</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 12:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Question,

It may be that the theory of evolution can account for some morality. I mean I agree we certainly share some traits, and behavoirs with non-human primates.

But, I can&#039;t think evolution alone can account for all morality. What can account for agage, self-less love, altruism that gives no survival benefit at all? To use an example that I&#039;ve read,

What compels someone who can hardly swim, and who might die in the attempt to jump into a river to rescue a total stranger, or even an enemy?

What about the human motivation to perform small acts of conscience that no one else even knows about?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Question,</p>
<p>It may be that the theory of evolution can account for some morality. I mean I agree we certainly share some traits, and behavoirs with non-human primates.</p>
<p>But, I can&#8217;t think evolution alone can account for all morality. What can account for agage, self-less love, altruism that gives no survival benefit at all? To use an example that I&#8217;ve read,</p>
<p>What compels someone who can hardly swim, and who might die in the attempt to jump into a river to rescue a total stranger, or even an enemy?</p>
<p>What about the human motivation to perform small acts of conscience that no one else even knows about?</p>
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		<title>By: Question-I-thority</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19215</link>
		<dc:creator>Question-I-thority</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 05:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I meant Theory of Evolution.  Sorry for the confusion.</description>
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		<title>By: LRA</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19214</link>
		<dc:creator>LRA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 03:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Theory of Evolution (biology)... or else Theory of Everything (physics- to unite gravity with the other atomic forces)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theory of Evolution (biology)&#8230; or else Theory of Everything (physics- to unite gravity with the other atomic forces)</p>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19213</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 03:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What&#039;s ToE, Question? Off to bed for now. See you in the morning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What&#8217;s ToE, Question? Off to bed for now. See you in the morning.</p>
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		<title>By: Question-I-thority</title>
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		<dc:creator>Question-I-thority</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:51:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your argument relies on the underlying assumption that the human brain is a reasoning machine and that people always do what they do because of conscious predispositions only.

You have not even attempted to address the challenge that morality of whatever stripe emerges out of the process of evolution.  Are you prepared to overturn ToE?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your argument relies on the underlying assumption that the human brain is a reasoning machine and that people always do what they do because of conscious predispositions only.</p>
<p>You have not even attempted to address the challenge that morality of whatever stripe emerges out of the process of evolution.  Are you prepared to overturn ToE?</p>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19211</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 01:07:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, guys,

I didn&#039;t do a &quot;hit, and run&quot; driveby. This was my first chance to get back to the computer, and spend more time  since yesterday.  I&#039;ll try to respond. What does happens sometimes is I can actually lose track of the threads, and all the responses.

But, I&#039;m not deliberately wanting to be disrespectful, or brush people off at all.

Claidheamh Mor, and Wintermute, apart from feeling that all humans have instrinsic value, and worth apart from value to the group, or performance, how can people be motivated to see everyone as part of the in group? Why shouldn&#039;t people simply look to their own interest, or the interests of their clan, rather than to be truly altruistic.

And, if this life is all we have, and there&#039;s no justice after death, what prevents someone from just as easily thinking, &quot;I&#039;m going to get mine no matter what.&quot; Who cares about anyone else?

Ok, if anything I&quot;ve said seems offensive, tell me about it, and I&#039;ll do my best to hear you out, and try to understand.

I want to add that I really do feel badly that so many here do have such a low opinion of the Christian faith, and of Christians in general. The church has screwed up pretty badly, and let alot of good people down.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, guys,</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t do a &#8220;hit, and run&#8221; driveby. This was my first chance to get back to the computer, and spend more time  since yesterday.  I&#8217;ll try to respond. What does happens sometimes is I can actually lose track of the threads, and all the responses.</p>
<p>But, I&#8217;m not deliberately wanting to be disrespectful, or brush people off at all.</p>
<p>Claidheamh Mor, and Wintermute, apart from feeling that all humans have instrinsic value, and worth apart from value to the group, or performance, how can people be motivated to see everyone as part of the in group? Why shouldn&#8217;t people simply look to their own interest, or the interests of their clan, rather than to be truly altruistic.</p>
<p>And, if this life is all we have, and there&#8217;s no justice after death, what prevents someone from just as easily thinking, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to get mine no matter what.&#8221; Who cares about anyone else?</p>
<p>Ok, if anything I&#8221;ve said seems offensive, tell me about it, and I&#8217;ll do my best to hear you out, and try to understand.</p>
<p>I want to add that I really do feel badly that so many here do have such a low opinion of the Christian faith, and of Christians in general. The church has screwed up pretty badly, and let alot of good people down.</p>
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		<title>By: claidheamh mor</title>
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		<dc:creator>claidheamh mor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 22:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stephen Webb gets really nasty. He doesn&#039;t like being challenged.

http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/02/cyclical-time-and-the-historical-jesus/#comment-19024

Underneath Grace&#039;s  &quot;:)&quot; are coming to the wrong site for whining:

&lt;blockquote&gt;But, what’s up with always presenting people of faith, and Christianity in the worse possible light? This is how it feels to me anyway when I read some of these deconversion type blogs.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

muddled thinking based on assumptions of what atheism is and isn&#039;t, upon which are based ridiculous, insulting, negating assumptions about human worth:

&lt;blockquote&gt;I think that humanitarianism, feeling that human beings are of priceless, intrinsic worth no matter what, can’t actually come from atheism alone as a philosophical base. I think it comes inspite of it, from somewhere else.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

and, of course, the hit-and-run drive-bys when it&#039;s someone else&#039;s turn to ask her questions and get answers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stephen Webb gets really nasty. He doesn&#8217;t like being challenged.</p>
<p><a href="http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/02/cyclical-time-and-the-historical-jesus/#comment-19024" rel="nofollow">http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/02/cyclical-time-and-the-historical-jesus/#comment-19024</a></p>
<p>Underneath Grace&#8217;s  &#8220;:)&#8221; are coming to the wrong site for whining:</p>
<blockquote><p>But, what’s up with always presenting people of faith, and Christianity in the worse possible light? This is how it feels to me anyway when I read some of these deconversion type blogs.</p></blockquote>
<p>muddled thinking based on assumptions of what atheism is and isn&#8217;t, upon which are based ridiculous, insulting, negating assumptions about human worth:</p>
<blockquote><p>I think that humanitarianism, feeling that human beings are of priceless, intrinsic worth no matter what, can’t actually come from atheism alone as a philosophical base. I think it comes inspite of it, from somewhere else.</p></blockquote>
<p>and, of course, the hit-and-run drive-bys when it&#8217;s someone else&#8217;s turn to ask her questions and get answers.</p>
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		<title>By: wintermute</title>
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		<dc:creator>wintermute</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 18:18:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seeing as you&#039;ve obviously visited this thread since I posted it, how about answering &lt;a href=&quot;http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19003&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;the question I asked above?

Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seeing as you&#8217;ve obviously visited this thread since I posted it, how about answering <a href="http://unreasonablefaith.com/2009/03/01/father-stabs-son-for-wearing-hat-to-church/#comment-19003" rel="nofollow">the question I asked above?</p>
<p>Thanks.</a></p>
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